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Unwondering

(n.)

The fading of shared curiosity between parent and child when questions can be answered instantly, removing the need to wonder, search, or not-know together.

Some families fight the unwondering with a family rule: nobody looks anything up until everyone has offered a thoughtful guess.

Does it ring true?

From the future, or already here?

Coinage notes

The Old English word wonder (from wunder ) has always carried a double meaning: to wonder, the question, and a sense of wonder, the awe. Here, the un- ends both: removing the need to search for answers together also kills our sense of shared awe.

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